Ten Things Tuesday 4.28

1. I’m obsessed with the Sia album.  Listening to it now. ūüé∂ūüéß

2. Going out of town with my littlest love soon, and have anxiety over it.  It will be such a good experience but they have SO MUCH STUFF. 

3. Hector and I haven’t been out alone overnight since our honeymoon. I see white sand beaches and waves in our future ūüĆäūüĆě

4. I’m obsessed with Ashley Horner.  She is such a badass and proves that you can be kickass with strechies.  The best battle scars ever.  Mine are so minimal but it’s no secret I was devastated over them.  Every day my core gets stronger and they fade they grow on me.  


We get one body.  Gotta own it. #ashlete 

5. Owning my goals.  Huge for me right now.  My days are filled with work, mom duties, wife duties and trying to be the best I can be.  I want my kiddos to be proud of me.  That said, my goal is to rock a bikini feeling badass by my birthday. It’s out there now. My first progress picture:  

6. Michael will be six months in about a week so I’m prepping for solids: 

Note: anything labeled baby is immediately priced at a premium. Glass mason jars 9 bucks for 12. 

7. Loving Lush Ultra Bland right now.  My face thanks me every night.

8. 6 months exclusive breastfeeding.  So proud of us and thankful for my love to hate relationship with my pump:  

9. My other woman crush? Joanna Gaines.  I love her style, her devotion to her family, and her IG.

10. Baby wearing, bob and dinosaurs:




This Weekend 3.29.15

My mind races at about 1500 miles an hour. ¬†Fast right? ¬†I’ve wondered a lot if I have a slight issue with anxiety. ¬†Ok wondered isn’t the word, I definitely have issues with anxiety. ¬†Probably the reason why everyone in my life likes when I regularly practice yoga. ¬†It really keeps me in check. Weekends are no joke around here. ¬†Per my previous post I spend a great deal of my day cleaning, lots of shopping (Costco! Trader Joe’s, Whole Foods), I meal prep most Sundays (roasted veggies, lots of rice/quinoa, grilled chicken are staples), and I really do try to spend quality time with friends and family. ¬†Yesterday was nuts. ¬†I have no idea what was accomplished but we ended up at dinner with my favorite Uncle, my parents, my bro, his daughter and my boys. ¬†We took the tank, it was great:



My parents are so awesome.  They love the kiddos to pieces.  My brother, Joey has two girls and I have two boys.  Ages: 9, 2.5, 1.5 and almost 5 months, they keep my parents busy but inject insane amounts of love into our lives.


I know, I know – Evan needs a haircut.


Jaylee reminds me of the nonstop cuteness that happens around 1.5, they walk with such determination and really want to get places. ¬†She is also babbling, she knows what she is saying even if I don’t understand her. lol

So last night was great, time with family.

But with those shenanigans there goes my brain again: ¬†I didn’t do laundry, I didn’t go to the gym, the house is a mess, I didn’t do x or y, why are my triceps so sore?, where is Hector?, we gotta get to Lowes/Home Depot/Mendards, I’m supposed to do the Shamrock Shuffle in the am!, shit – the dog., I mean it really never ends. Haha. So I went to bed with a full brain – then sleep basically never happened. ¬†Baby making noises, Oso’s chain ringing every time he moved, I hear him running up and down the steps, I hear Hector snoring, oops there is the baby again!, gotta get up early for the race, then bam, no alarm because my husband thought I should “sleep in”. *sigh*

So may late lazy morning looked like this:


Blended coffee.


Lazy parent’s breakfast for toddler.


You pay for swings, jumpers, rock n play’s, etc. and he wants to chill in his carseat. Ha.

So now it is a cold sunday, I’m missing my 8k that I totally didn’t train for but DID pay for. ¬† SO I’m going to get it together and go to the gym while the hubs is home and my mom is willing to be my date. ¬†Happy Sunday ya’ll.


2 Months & 2.5 Years & 2 Years ago

Two Months:


And this is how I feel about that:


Two and a half YEARS:


and the above is REALLY how I feel about THAT!  My beautiful boys, have been living the lives of sickies this past week.  There has been sooooooooooooo many coughs, so much snot, so much tea, honey and sleepless nights, but everyone is finally on the mend.  Each day Evan acts like a almost 4 year old, not 2.5 in fact no one really trusts me when I say he is 2, even my husband.


I’m constantly defending the fact that YES he is going to throw tantrums, he is two…

My littlest muffin is also super-sized and super cute. He has a cough and runny nose (thank you so much for the invention of Nosefrida…. Or we’d really be in trouble) – which Evan never had as a baby it hasn’t been fun but he is still in good spirits and stinkin cute to boot:


He is super super strong, very very heavy and a fantastic eater and sleeper.  I hope he sticks to that for when I return to work.

Michael has the most amazing little smile, he just coos at you – I miss so many pictures (even though I take 10000) because I’m just awestruck by his beauty. ¬†Then Evan, the most perfect big brother, so gentle and wonderful. ¬†My heart couldn’t be more full, really it Couldn’t.

More Twos we are celebrating? ¬†Two years in our home (yep we closed on our house TWO years ago) and TWO years at my not-so-new job! ¬†We are soaking in the TWOs. I’m looking forward to mending this weekend where we start the SECOND year of Hector’s 30s :D


Monday Thoughts 1.12


That’s the word of the day. ¬†I’m totally conflicted. ¬†Anxiety creeping in. ¬†I expected this. ¬†I knew that my 12 weeks of maternity leave would fly. I knew that it would be beyond bittersweet to return to work. ¬†Sweet, because I do it so I can provide for my family and build my life beyond motherhood – it is what I need to do, for me. Bitter, for obvious reasons. ¬†I LOVE being with my boys. ¬†I truly do. ¬†I love nursing my sweet baby boy, even though clogged ducts that make me fall ill (that’s what happened this weekend *sad face*). ¬†I love living each moment with Evan, he is SO full of life. ¬†He is smart, funny and just down right amazing.



Michael is thriving. ¬†He is 13lbs 9oz (70% tile) and 24.5 inches long (90+% tile), he is so strong and beautiful. ¬†I stare at him cry, on the rare occasion he does, just to be in awe of him. He does this lip quiver thing that I never want him to stop doing and I want to badly to capture in on video but have been unsuccessful. ¬†He is a cuddler like his brother, he likes to be wrapped tight and close. He doesn’t spend much time in his rock n play or his swing – he is in my arms or in the Moby. ¬†I just can’t get enough of him.

So many people told me there was no way I’d get so lucky with a sweet easy baby again. ¬†That my second would be a terror. ¬†Well they were all wrong, he is just as mellow and sweet as Evan was. ¬†He is an excellent nurser and pretty good sleeper. ¬†If I didn’t hate pregnancy so much I’d think about another. ¬†Really, he is that sweet. ¬†I love being a mother, and am sad I am not one who cannot enjoy pregnancy. ¬†I really am sad about that.


Evan is also a mini monster. We weigh him and track his height in 2 months, I expect him to be pretty much off the charts.  He has had a major growth spurt, he is in 4T clothes and talks like a 4 year old. He can hold conversations and puts things together so much so it blows everyone away. People look at me crazy when I say he is almost two and half he has matured so much in the past two months it is really unreal Рeven early pictures of him and Michael show how he went from a toddler to a kid.  It makes me sad and proud.  Sad, because my newborn skipped so quickly to a baby and my toddler so quickly from a toddler to a child but proud because they are my boys, they are happy, healthy and beautiful.

Evan has adjusted to having Michael around so wonderfully I cannot believe it. It is something that no one around me can believe either. ¬†As much as Hector’s personality makes me absolutely crazy sometimes, my children exhibit that true mellowness that has to be in their genes, in their makeup – so I’m learning to love Hector’s mellowness, it gave my kids a great disposition.

Now – don’t get me wrong, not everything is sunshine and daisies all the time. ¬†Some days are tough, but most days are wonderfully balanced, except I find it hard to be away. ¬†Even though making time for me is important. Yoga helps me keep that anxiety in check, my kids and yoga teach me to be present. ¬†That is something I try to work on each day. ¬†Being present, not giving myself a heart attack about 6 months, 2 years, 10 years from now. ¬†Yes, my babies will grow – and yes, it breaks my heart they will not be babies forever – but they are babies now and I need to soak that all up. ¬†My body will get there, my heart will get there, as long as I’m moving forward and taking it all in (and taking A BILLION pictures) in the meantime.

Like I said, I’m emotional. Emotional thinking this could be my last baby, my last time to enjoy so much time at home with my boys. ¬†Emotional with gratitude. Emotional over so many things. I have to remind myself to keep breathing too because my boys are breathtaking. Simply breathtaking.

snuggle love

MAV – 1 Month

Dear Mr. Michael Alexander:

You are a whole month [and a halfish] old already. You are such a beautiful, peaceful, content little baby. ¬†I stare at you all day. Something I think about everyday? ¬†How absolutely stunning you are. ¬†You just are such a cute little guy. ¬†You are becoming more and more alert from your newbie days. ¬†You still sleep a lot and I’m guilty of holding you a lot. ¬† I must confess I don’t hold you as much as I did Evan but that is for a couple reasons. ¬†Reason 1 – Evan is here and he needs my love and attention too and 2 – you aren’t as picky as he was (or as I make him out to be, but it could have all been my fault, wanting him in my arms constantly). ¬†You really do like to be on the boppy lounger or in your rock and play or swing. ¬†You are just very relaxed except for between 10:30-12 and sometimes later. ¬†Suddenly you are very picky, so picky, you don’t know what you want. ¬†This is the time before your longest sleep stretch (about 5-6 hours then you squirm and make noises and before you cry I nurse you and you go back to sleep for another 3-4 hours) is a little challenging. ¬†You want to nurse, then you don’t, you want the pacifier, then you don’t, you want to be held, then you don’t ;-) you just like to hear yourself scream at this time of the night but you do this little lip quiver thing that just melts my heart (yet I try to get it on video because I never want to forget it) right now as I type this I’m rocking you in the rock and play with my foot and waiting for the scream as you gently get worked up and I know I will end up finishing this up some other time… likely tomorrow. ¬† ¬†See, now your are laying on the pillow next to me and you are pretty comfortable for the moment. So I’ll continue. ¬†[5 minutes later, you are in my lap…]

I know there will be many days where I compare you to your brother, because he is my first motherhood experience but I promise I love you so much and know you are your own perfect little soul. ¬†I’m so exceptionally grateful that you are my little boy and I look so forward to watching you grow. ¬†You are my little grunter, you are so noisey – not in a bad way but in a “yeah I’m here” way, it is like you are already trying got talk. ¬†Even in your sleep you talk, maybe you just have very vivid dreams, but you let us know, even when you are sleeping, you are around. ¬†You enjoy the moby, you do not enjoy the car seat, you LOVE being swaddled, you do not cry with a wet diaper, your brother kisses you about 1000x a day so I try to keep up with him, you likely get close to 3000 kisses a day. ¬†What can I say? ¬†You are loved. ¬†So very very loved.

Another thing we do a lot? ¬†Take pictures. ¬†LOTS and lots of pictures. My phone is quickly getting filled with beautiful pictures of you and Evan, and of you. ¬†I’m challenging myself to take at least a picture of you everyday and we are already on day 44 (if I post this 12/19) somewhere in there I screwed up a day, double posted or didn’t post… who knows. But I know I have a picture of you that day ha. As I write this I realize that I’m more than half way through my leave… and my heart breaks a little because each day you change a little, grow a lot and make me feel whole. ¬†I know there will be a HOLE when I leave you all day :( – my sweet baby. ¬†I love you.

I promise to give you my all, I promise to love you even when you think I don’t – I promise I will do everything in my power to give you all the tools you need to be anything you want to be. ¬†I will love you unconditionally – you are my baby. ¬†You are a piece of me and I cannot imagine life without you even though you’ve only been here six weeks – my life is so full because you are in it.

All my love & then some,


I said I took a lot of pictures – here are some of your fancy one monthers:IMG_3355 IMG_3352 IMG_3349 IMG_3348 IMG_3346 IMG_3336 IMG_3307 IMG_3303 IMG_3289

Brought to You By

Good morning, friends.  This post is brought to you by hector, who so nicely is watching both boys so I can drink my coffee and write a post without juggling one or two kiddos.

We are battling some colds in the Villa-household. ¬†By we, we mean Evan. ¬†If Evan has something, we all feel it. ¬†Even if we are symptom-less. ¬†I nursed Evan for over a year and a half and that whole time he was never sick, ever since stopping it’s like the germs are finding him. *sigh* Anywho-We have been busy here, we made a family trip to see some BEAUTIFUL Christmas lights:

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We were like the stroller gang:


It was unseasonably warm, and we took advantage. ¬†Remember I said I wanted the Britax (or Uppababy) so we could just have one stroller, well I still haven’t bought the adapter for the carseat (fail) and my MASSIVE toddler is almost past both height and weight specs for the second seat so we skipped that too. ¬†Luckily when we go out we typically are a group so TWO strollers go with us right now. Ha. ¬†I love baby wearing, too (a great alternative) toddler in the stroller baby in the wrap or ergo.

We had a really great time stretching our legs with Grandma, Grandpa and Auntie Colie.  It was nice to sip hot coco and hang with our amazing family & the rest of Chicago that place was PACKED!!

I’ve been home alone a lot with the kiddos so I also have had Evan busy with at home projects like – decorating gingerbread houses (well he did the cookies they looked beautiful):

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(with my littlest one so sweetly swinging next to us) – coloring, painting, working on our felt tree (I’ll post finished product pictures later) and watching a little too much TV (Netflix is the devil ;-) )¬†– Projects are nice to do – they make me feel like I’m getting things done and that my toddler isn’t ridiculously bored. His favorite past-time is still dumping all his toys everywhere and not picking them up.

Michael is just as sweet as ever. ¬†Nursing champ, sweet cuddling love, and only has about an hour of crazy time around 11-12am (yeah, we went from early nights to late night parties). ¬†He is growing beautifully and gives us these AMAZING little smiles that I haven’t really caught pics/videos of because I just melt when he does them. ¬†Today we have, as always, way too much on the plate but I’m going to sip my coffee, get dressed and get moving with my love bugs. I still owe a one month update on M. ¬†:)

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We have a ton of Christmas shopping left to do – what a crazy time of year. ¬†I’m just so grateful I’m spending this time with my loves. <3

Oh! ¬†My sister and I are doing a 5k in a month. ¬†I’m freaking out. ¬†My lungs already hurt :) So I’m desperate need of some warm running gear and THAT is on my Christmas list. ¬†Santa will likely bring my jewelry but I’m secretly hoping for things that make me sweaty (warm running gear and hot yoga passes :D)

Saturday Morning Madness

Yesterday was a glorious day spent with people I love.



We stopped by Auntie Joanna and had a great time destroying her house. ¬†But adult talk with my dearest friend was so nice. ¬†We have a lot in common and she doesn’t flinch when I pull out food for Michael – I love that. hahaha. (the little things). ¬†We had a super lazy night at home. ¬†Hector made macaroni and I enjoyed a glass of red. ¬†Glorious red. It was like angels were singing.

Then bedtime happened.

Something crazy happened last night. ¬†It was like a series of extraordinary events in our household. ¬†Our house has been quiet peaceful at night. ¬†The baby does his fussy hour before his long stretch typically around 9 but by 10 everyone is pretty much asleep for a good 6 or more hours, with Evan asleep until 8-9 the next morning. ¬†I’ve really counted my blessings in this department because I know sleep can be non-exhistent in “newborn” households.

Last night Michael¬†seemed more fussy than usual so I went into his nursery and we rocked for a long time, he was super sleepy and so I put him down and he wavered in and out of sleepiness. ¬†I could hear Evan up too… past his bedtime. This should have been the sign of impending sleep doom.

Evan FINALLY fell asleep around 11. ¬†Way way way past his bedtime. ¬†There were lots of tears and “Momma I want helicopters, momma I want choo choo trains, momma i want my iPad and so on and so on…”, with Evan if you don’t get him down in time he is a nightmare but this rarely happens. ¬†It is SO weird because nap time was so simple yesterday. ¬†But yeah, Evan asleep at 11. I laid down totally done for the day but insomnia crept in I could hear the sound of the dog scratching his neck downstairs, the heat kicking in, normal creaks of the house, my snoring baby, my SNORING husband, it was like a migraine without the headache everything was SO LOUD. ¬†Baby gets up about 1, I nurse, rock and swaddle – he goes back down at 3 EVAN gets up. ¬†This never happens. ¬†He runs to me and I hold him, then guess who else wants momma? ¬†There was not enough Jen last night to go around. ¬†Hector is trying to hand me the crying hungry baby while Evan is freaking out “no momma, daddy hold the baby, you hold me.” He really didn’t care baby was crying, which is strange. ¬†I figured he’d fall back to sleep within minutes. ¬†No dice. ¬†I had two crying babies for like an HOUR or greater last night I refused to look at the clock to remind me how long the madness was lasting and somehow Hector ended up in Evan’s room. ¬†I woke up with a child on each side of me and me in the middle of my bed… It felt like the night never ended. ¬†It was complete chaos. Like a frat party.



But the morning arrived. We survived and I will be surviving off of caffeine, caffeine, energizing yoga postures, and more caffeine… Seriously. But it’s part of being a parent. ¬†I’m lucky most days, this is like everyday norm for some moms POWER TO YOU. lol

What else is on the Saturday agenda? ¬†Lights! ¬†There are some incredible displays in the Chicagoland area so I’m wrapping my loves up with Auntie Colie and the grandparents and we are going to enjoy the magical 45 degree weather. ¬†We are taking two cars and probably two strollers. We are like an army these days and we have only grown by one tiny being. ¬†I have a yoga class at 12 and Christmas cards to get out the door. ¬†OH and wrapping! ¬†Any luck not having your two year old open everyones gifts under the tree? ¬†I haven’t wrapped anything because telling him no just means he will sneak downstairs and do it anyway and put his hands up like “I didn’t do it.” hahaha.

Happy Saturday! ¬†I’ll be back this weekend with an update on my ONE MONTH OLD: